I am an older woman who is enjoying a passionate relationship with a handsome, sexy and very attentive, and younger man. We have been in this relationship for well over three years and he still can't get enough of me and I certainly can't get enough of him, if you know what I mean.
When we are out on a date, I'm not sure if the hateful looks are about the fact that he his younger or the fact that he is a big beautiful Black Man. All I have to say to all the haters is, try it you might like it, (a younger man or a young Black man, take your pick). Love should be accepted where you find it, not limited to race or color.
I think more white girls are getting the hang of my last sentence. Looking around our society, it appears that white women are willing to cross the color line when it comes to love. Some have done so at the expense of losing friends and family, but they are happy in love, which sometimes, like any other relationship, last and sometimes it doesn't.
I for one will look for love in all the right persons, but for now I am going to enjoy my lover who has an insatiable appetite for me.
Older ladies, don't be afraid to cross the lines, whether they are dating younger men are dating younger men that are a different race.
One life, live it.
Men choose women based on their physical attractiveness, which unfortunately wanes as we age. Gravity is not kind to us.
Women choose men based on their character, which often comes with age (Not necessarily). Most of us want someone to take care of us, and younger men often lack the social graces that we admire.
Of course these are vast generalities with lots of exceptions, but it does explain why men are attracted to young, beautiful women, and they expect the women not to change over the years.
Women are attracted to older men with character and refinement, and we hope that they will change as we train them.