The first thing women need to understand is that men are completely different than women.
There are three types of men:
1. The Serious Man- These are the men that are serious in their pursuits. They are honest with their feelings and know what they want in a woman. They do not play games and are mature in their decsions. They know who they are and expect the same from their partner. They seek a woman who is an individual, independent, and mature. They do not use emotional manipulation with women because they seek a real relationship built on mutual understanding. They expect to be treated with maturity and honesty. Sometimes it is hard to find these men and most of the time they prefer friendship first. They use their heads when making decsions and do not have intense one night stands. The only way to attract one of these types of men is to be completely real with them. They prefer that you're yourself and if you're not they will intuitively know. They want to live a peaceful life with a good woman. They do not have a problem with commitment. Emotional maturity is a must with this type of man. If your looking for drama and games let me introduce the second type of man, the game player.
2. The Game Player- These men like to get in your head. They like to string you along, give you the ride of your life, and manipulate you every chance they get. If you listen to your intuition you will make good choices. They are fairly easy to spot. They start arguments for no reason at all, this is their main form of manipulation. They do this because they either are waiting for a reaction from you or they need to call someone else. They have sex with anything that walks and, of course, behind your back. They say they are not ready for commitment or a relationship, they say this because they are not done playing games. This should be the first clue. They do not call you unless they need something and beware of them calling you a few days before they need you. They want to manipulate you into believeing they like you and the relationship will progress further. They use nonverbal communication to string you along so that you look crazy when you ask where the relationship is going. Nonverbal is their best way to communicate they like you and want you. However, the nonverbal communication is also a form of manipulation when used for this purpose. They are never direct and honest to you or themselves. They usually have big egos and are selfish. They pursue weak and vulnerable people. Don't let their manipulation get you down. The best thing to do is run away as fast as you can. Don't become the victim instead become the victory. There is no changing this man. Lets not give this type of man another sentence in this article, moving along to The Good Man.
3. The Good Man- This man wants so much to grow up and find themselves. They are usually a bit younger, but are going through the transformation process. They are transforming from the immature boy to the serious man. They never used emotional manipulation much and if they did they feel bad about it. They are cool and honest with themselves. They have had their flings, but eventually decide it's not for them. They want a good woman to commit to. The problem with these type of men is when they decide to change. Usually a good woman will come along and they will start to grow up. You have to remember that this man will decide to change on their own when all the reinforcements are in place. They will not a second earlier. They have a hard time leaving the boy and developing into a serious man. Lets have faith though because these men do eventually turn into that serious man at the top of the page. Sometimes you have to invest more time into these men. Friendships and freedom are very important to them. Becareful that you do not mix up the game player and the good man. If you have invested a lot of time into one and it seems that he is playing games with you then you will know that he is the game player and not the good man. Good men will be honest with you. Just becareful out there and make sure you choose the right type of man.
