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<title>Maintaining the Status of a Wife at This Age</title>
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<title>mfundo</title>
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<![CDATA[Kalanrakas<br />
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Are you saying women must endure a habitual cheater just because they wanna be spiteful to the other woman?<br />
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Thats crazy because that other or should I say those other women are laughing behind your back &amp; what about the pain that you endure from his betrayal?<br />
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I think you are one of those people who dont wanna be seen as failures- you will endure pain just so other people will think your happy that just SAD.<br />
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As for vows you are forgetting the part which says he will forsake others.......<a href="http://www.pheedo.com/click.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment158480"><img src="http://www.pheedo.com/img.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment158480" border="0"/></a>]]></description>
<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2008 11:47:28 PST</pubDate></item>
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<title>kalanrakas</title>
<link>http://www.beyondjane.com/Family/Marriage/Maintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959#comment138000</link>
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<![CDATA[thank you all for y0ur comments...<br />
I guess it takes one to be one...life is full of choices..staying in marriage with a maintained self respect, with a sane husband is what keeps the bond together,,,not just because of the kids...married people grow...they transcend boundaries...and the challenge is there...thank you all..God bless<a href="http://www.pheedo.com/click.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment138000"><img src="http://www.pheedo.com/img.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment138000" border="0"/></a>]]></description>
<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 01:46:32 PST</pubDate></item>
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<title>indiangirl</title>
<link>http://www.beyondjane.com/Family/Marriage/Maintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959#comment137653</link>
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<![CDATA[I'm a wife, a mother, career woman, daughter, sister and boss. Quite a lot of roles to play. And quite difficult to balance. Yes, i guess we are a strong sex because it takes a lot of patience and hardwork to keep it all balanced , and yes we are able to do it. Yes, i'v heard from a lot of elders that an intact family is made possible by a very loving, dedicated, submissive woman. But with regards to a broken family due to a philandering husband? That would be a different story for me. I am a very forgiving, very patient and very understanding person...but i know where to draw the line..Self-respect is very important to me. It's one thing that makes you lovable. I may forgive mistakes on a case-to-case basis. But if it's obviously a habitual mistake, well, ibang usapan na yan, i can't be tanga-tanga na. Im a COSMO girl..Fun, fearless female hahaha!  <a href="http://www.pheedo.com/click.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment137653"><img src="http://www.pheedo.com/img.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment137653" border="0"/></a>]]></description>
<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 11:24:14 PST</pubDate></item>
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<title>palang</title>
<link>http://www.beyondjane.com/Family/Marriage/Maintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959#comment137620</link>
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<![CDATA[aja!!! for all the working moms out there!!! i love and salute u all especially to my mom...muah!<a href="http://www.pheedo.com/click.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment137620"><img src="http://www.pheedo.com/img.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment137620" border="0"/></a>]]></description>
<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 10:23:28 PST</pubDate></item>
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<title>palang</title>
<link>http://www.beyondjane.com/Family/Marriage/Maintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959#comment137618</link>
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<![CDATA[aja!!! for all the working moms out there!!! i love and salute u all especially to my mom...muah!<a href="http://www.pheedo.com/click.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment137618"><img src="http://www.pheedo.com/img.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment137618" border="0"/></a>]]></description>
<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 10:17:11 PST</pubDate></item>
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<title>mjo</title>
<link>http://www.beyondjane.com/Family/Marriage/Maintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959#comment137600</link>
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<![CDATA[the thing is, when we talk about "wife" we talk about the woman/individual in a marriage..that is why a lot of women have opted out of the marriage to keep themselves sane..but then again, most of the time (except of course when the marriage is not gifted with offsprings), wives are mothers..it is the "mother" within that "wife"  that makes most women who have stayed on in the marriage stay on despite the philandering of the husband, etc..precisely because of that reason of keeping the family intact and the "ageless" reason of "for the sake of the kids."  <br />
now, the WOMAN is torn between prioritizing her role as a wife or as a mother...it all still depends on the personality of the woman..if she is strong enough to endure all that suffering..since what good a mother can she be if she herself is on the verge of insanity already because of all the trials in the marriage?<br />
busa ako, ari nalang ko sa pagka MOTHER..bwahaha!! ;)<a href="http://www.pheedo.com/click.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment137600"><img src="http://www.pheedo.com/img.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment137600" border="0"/></a>]]></description>
<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 09:48:28 PST</pubDate></item>
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<title>mjo</title>
<link>http://www.beyondjane.com/Family/Marriage/Maintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959#comment137596</link>
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<![CDATA[Maintaining the Status of a Wife at This Age -- what exactly does this mean?  what "status" are we talking about here??<a href="http://www.pheedo.com/click.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment137596"><img src="http://www.pheedo.com/img.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment137596" border="0"/></a>]]></description>
<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 09:39:36 PST</pubDate></item>
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<title>onliguapo</title>
<link>http://www.beyondjane.com/Family/Marriage/Maintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959#comment137460</link>
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<![CDATA[i agree<a href="http://www.pheedo.com/click.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment137460"><img src="http://www.pheedo.com/img.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment137460" border="0"/></a>]]></description>
<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 02:57:33 PST</pubDate></item>
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<title>harvey</title>
<link>http://www.beyondjane.com/Family/Marriage/Maintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959#comment137454</link>
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<![CDATA[true..but when is the right time for the wife to call it over? I think..it is when the husband himself tells the wife he has no more feelings for her...then that is time<a href="http://www.pheedo.com/click.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment137454"><img src="http://www.pheedo.com/img.phdo?x=&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.beyondjane.com%2FFamily%2FMarriage%2FMaintaining-the-Status-of-a-Wife-at-This-Age.175959%23comment137454" border="0"/></a>]]></description>
<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 02:48:15 PST</pubDate></item>
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