http://www.beyondjane.com/Relationships/Dating/10-Signs-You-Should-Dump-Your-Boyfriend.228949 Discussion about: 10 Signs You Should Dump Your Boyfriend http://www.beyondjane.com/Relationships/Dating/10-Signs-You-Should-Dump-Your-Boyfriend.228949#comment444907 ]]> Mon, 24 Nov 2008 21:50:14 PST http://www.beyondjane.com/Relationships/Dating/10-Signs-You-Should-Dump-Your-Boyfriend.228949#comment425567
i ended a rocky relationship, as many have described above - you reach a tepid state of existence with your significant other... the affection may or may not lessen, but your conversations, those annoying habits that become a kind of mind game with you (are you being heard, ignored? are you treated like a child, like a piece of furniture?), and how you kind of get out of sync or don\'t seem to see each other anymore... that is a problem.

my ex and i converse occasionally as friends. what i\'ve noticed sometimes, is that despite how much you may change as a person, it does not mean that the other person has changed, even though he/she may recognize things that you\'ve changed... we all become older, wiser, more experienced, and we have different challenges day-to-day. it\'s normal to feel out of the groove sometimes; but, i\'d say, if month drags on to six months, and six months to one year... Just imagine all that you could lose from living your life? life is here, and we are all alive. you don\'t have to be anyone you don\'t want to be; if someone is holding you back from being your true self, you can be the volume in your life - just because the other person can\'t hear or does not want to hear doesn\'t mean anything... can you hear yourself? God has good plans for each person. we need to be compassionate to others, but also to ourselves - there are many things we need to do in our lives and good things we should experience as sentient human beings. :)

PS. i think i\'m telling my ex... we\'ll just have to be friends... one hard decision is enough - they say insanity is defined by doing the same thing that doesn\'t work, several times to fix a problem.

no relationship can be intense all of the time. but, ]]> Tue, 18 Nov 2008 18:27:40 PST http://www.beyondjane.com/Relationships/Dating/10-Signs-You-Should-Dump-Your-Boyfriend.228949#comment425544 ]]> Tue, 18 Nov 2008 18:17:15 PST http://www.beyondjane.com/Relationships/Dating/10-Signs-You-Should-Dump-Your-Boyfriend.228949#comment401109 ]]> Mon, 10 Nov 2008 00:19:19 PST http://www.beyondjane.com/Relationships/Dating/10-Signs-You-Should-Dump-Your-Boyfriend.228949#comment384117 ]]> Sun, 02 Nov 2008 02:10:34 PST http://www.beyondjane.com/Relationships/Dating/10-Signs-You-Should-Dump-Your-Boyfriend.228949#comment374833 Just to the hard part of actually ending it...]]> Tue, 28 Oct 2008 20:21:15 PST http://www.beyondjane.com/Relationships/Dating/10-Signs-You-Should-Dump-Your-Boyfriend.228949#comment347167 i understand how you feel, its normal to a parents protecting their child especially in this issues..1st--your young and a lot of things will happen to your life. dont take it so seriously anyway your only 16. dont rush. i know you love your bf but dont go with the flow of your emotions..keep busy to your other activities in lfe especially in ur studies. time will come you will realize everything..take care.
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