10 Reasons Why Women Hate Each Other
- Because of a man
- Ignorance
- Jealousy
- Too much gossip
- Attitudes are different
- Misery
- Stress
- Friendships
- Low self esteem
- "The miseducation of a woman"
And so on. The only reason why i stress this topic is because i am a woman and that shit just isn't an easy thing.
Don't get me wrong, I love the woman that I am; infact I AM my own "WOMAN" which stands for, "why overjudge me and not know me".
As a woman coming from the hardknock life and falling into the deeper holes that i dug for myself, I can relate to anykind of "WOMAN". I just would love to know why do we hate eachother so much? We stay arguing with eachother for the silliest of reasons and it's beginning to scare me. Some of us are friends and can't stand eachother because you talk about eachother like dogs and you told it to the wrong person. That's one of the biggest issues with women, we have trust issues with one another and we take it out on eachother because we have trust issues with ourselves.
Too many times we don't realize that we have so many more responsibilities just being a woman that at the end of the day you just wanna be alone with the other you and that's okay. I have surveyed alot of men and i asked them why do women hate eachother. My reason for asking the opposite sex is because they are outsiders looking in and they can relate to women in more ways than one. I had gotten all different kinds of feedback. One man said cause we are miserable and that's why we keep eachother company. He said all we do is sit around gossip and scheme. It was making me kind of upset when I was hearing that but they say that the truth hurts. So I kept my cool cause being the professional woman that I was at the time ;I asked. 'Ladies if this doesn't apply let it fly"
Now we gossip and that's just what we do and there is nothing wrong with it only because without it there would be no talk.! There is a time and place for everything and some of us put their time and effort into the bullshit of a gossip. What I mean by that is if your one of those females that sit around allday and gossip and scheme than you have nothing else better to do. That can make woman hate you and it can make woman love you but the question is? What kind of woman does that make you? Do you make gossip apart of your life because there is something missing out of yours? See it becomes a problem only if your a troublemaker and you think that your gaining friends and social dates when in all reality you surround yourself with misery loving company.
There are all different kinds of women. You have the women that's serious, independent, sneaky, canniving, cool, grimy, two faced,happy,sad,angry,sexy, not so sexy,skinny, fat, quiet, loud, gay, promiscious, conceited, confused, depressed, emotional, sensitive,gold diggers, hard working, good mothers, on welfare, bad mothers, abused woman, mad at the world,etc. That's enough to deal with just being one. Let's take the canniving cool and grimy group and put them with the hard working good mother and sensitive. What makes them so different? Beacause of who they are or who they were? They could of been the vice versa before they made a choice of who they wanted to be. My point is Ladies, whoever you are and whatever position of a woman you choose to be, you are always and forever going to be a woman regardless.
It doesn't help to be mad at anybody because it's your world and you created it. You surrounded your life with all the finer or bitter appliances of what it comes with. It bothers me that we don't get along as woman and we are all the same creatures. You are no better than me and I am no better than you. I look you up and down because it's my eyes. I am jealous of you because I am insecure. I talk about you behind your back because you are "just that important. I like your man because he likes me and as a woman we allow our emotions to get the best of us especially dealing with the opposite sex. I then asked the Ladies "Why do we hate eachother".
I had about 100 tell me becauseof a man. I laughed so hard because that was what I needed to hear to just make what I have to say juicier". This is for the ladies who can't get along because of the opposite sex! There are so many men out here who we can't resist that we will go so far as to killing eachother. It Is a disgrace and it definetly isn't your fault. One lady told me about a time when she was dealing with a married man and the wife found out and tried to kill her. In regards to that; If you know that this man has a wife and probably about 2 or 3 kids, then would you even lower your standard of dealing with him. Go get your own man and build your own foundation That's just the bottom of the line. The type of woman that it makes you is "canniving and lost in your own source of low self esteem, and because of that, you would mess up someone else's life who's trying to settle in her life and become the woman that she is.
